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Dear Ted #17

Well, my love, the year 2019 is in the books.

I would say that with the exception of the last six or seven weeks, that 2019 was actually a great year.  We had a couple of fun trips.  Things were really, actually, wonderful.  Then November 14 came and took you away from me.

Well, I made a goal of getting those last few movies in that we wanted to see.  I made it to Knives Out, Jumanji and finally Star Wars.  I felt like I really accomplished something by first walking into a movie theater and second seeing the movies that we had planned on seeing - and doing it by the end of the year.  I managed to hack your movie club, so that was helpful for Star Wars.  😄

Then, yesterday, we kept with tradition and went to the dollar theater.  Rodger was working and Rustie was not feeling well, so KayeLynn and I went and got the two older girls and met with Crystal, Brandon, Zach and Chelsea.  All of us went and saw Playing With Fire and then all the ladies went to see Addams Family and the boys went to Zombieland.  I'm sure you would have been with the boys on that one.  Zach has grown into such a movie lover and likes to see the more grown up movies now.  He would have been a great movie partner for you when you wanted to see some of the movies that I didn't want to see.

Well, I'm hoping to make it through 2020.  It's going to be hard without you here.  So many decisions to be  made and so much to do.

I love those times that I know you are around.  Those times that I just completely feel you.  I miss you so very much.

I hope you're happy where you are.

#loveyoumissyou

From the Dollar Movies - KayeLynn and me

The grandkiddos

Crystal and Brandon at the end!

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